We do not require a retainer. Fortunately, when the Pandemic hit us in March 2020, we had already been a paperless office for many years with two cloud based case management systems. However, the Pandemic propelled us to make many improvements to our client service protocols, retainer requirements, direct calendaring, electronic exchanges and remote systems being some examples. This has allowed our firm to concentrate more on client service and less on wasteful antiquated management systems. If you entrust us with your family law matter, you'll be in excellent hands.

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Legal Separation Vs Divorce

Many clients ask us the same thing: what is the real difference between legal separation and divorce? Both involve the family court, both require formal filings, and both allow the court to decide issues like property, support, and custody. But they lead to different outcomes, and it is important to know what each means. Our Alameda County, CA legal separation lawyer can help you understand the difference when you contact us today!

What Divorce Means

When you go through a divorce, your marriage legally ends. Once the final judgment is entered, you are no longer married in the eyes of the law. You are free to remarry, and your legal and financial ties to your spouse are dissolved except for whatever agreements or orders remain in place about children, support, or shared property. Divorce is permanent, and while court orders can sometimes be modified later, the status of being divorced does not change. Our team can help you explore the main reasons why couples choose separation over divorce.

What Legal Separation Means

Legal separation, by contrast, allows couples to live apart with clear court orders in place while still remaining legally married. The court can issue rulings on child custody, visitation, support, property division, and debts, but your marital status does not end. Because of this, you cannot remarry unless you later file for divorce. For some couples, legal separation feels like a more measured step, providing structure and protection without cutting marital ties entirely. Couples considering separation may also benefit from our mediation services. Our attorney passed the California bar in 1993, and he has been helping couples and families since.

Residency And Timing

One practical difference between the two processes involves residency and waiting periods. In California, you must meet residency requirements to file for divorce, and there is also a six-month waiting period before a divorce becomes final. Legal separation does not involve the same residency rules or waiting time, which means it can sometimes move forward more quickly. This can be helpful for couples who need immediate orders in place but are not yet eligible or ready for divorce.

Flexibility To Change Course

Legal separation also gives couples flexibility that divorce does not. If you start with separation, you can later convert the case into a divorce once you meet the requirements or decide that ending the marriage is best. A divorce, once finalized, cannot be undone. That option to amend your case makes legal separation a strategic choice for couples who want time and stability before making a final decision.

Talk With Us About Your Options

Choosing between legal separation and divorce is not just a legal decision but a personal one. Our team can review your situation, explain what each process would mean for you, and help you decide on the path that best fits your goals. If you are considering either option, contact Attorney Bernie today to schedule a consultation and move forward with confidence. Our team is available 24/7 to answer your top legal separation questions!

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