We do not require a retainer. Fortunately, when the Pandemic hit us in March 2020, we had already been a paperless office for many years with two cloud based case management systems. However, the Pandemic propelled us to make many improvements to our client service protocols, retainer requirements, direct calendaring, electronic exchanges and remote systems being some examples. This has allowed our firm to concentrate more on client service and less on wasteful antiquated management systems. If you entrust us with your family law matter, you'll be in excellent hands.

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Alameda County Collaborative Divorce Lawyer

Collaborative Divorce Lawyer Alameda County, CA

Collaborative Divorce Lawyer Alameda County, CA - Wooden Gavel On Petition For Divorce PaperAn Almeda County, CA collaborative divorce lawyer understands there are many issues that need to be settled in a divorce, like child custody, property division, child support, and alimony. When couples cannot come to an agreement on these issues, the divorce ends up in litigation and a judge makes these decisions. This process is both time-consuming and expensive. It also often results in even more acrimony between the couple.

Today, many couples are turning to alternative resolution methods. One of the most popular is collaborative divorce.

How does collaborative divorce work?

In a collaborative divorce, the couple agrees to negotiate in good faith with the goal of arriving at mutually satisfying and fair resolutions to the divorce issues. They also agree to full disclosure of all pertinent documents and information.

The couple each has their own Alameda County collaborative divorce lawyers. The parties will set up multiple meetings to discuss the issues they need to resolve in order to end the marriage. The couple may also have different professionals participating in the process in order to provide guidance and expertise, including child psychologists, real estate appraisers, accountants, and other appropriate professionals.

Why is collaborative divorce a better alternative than litigation?

The civil court system has been set up to be adversarial in nature, pitting one side against the other trying to “prove” their case. This format alone can be contentious, but when you throw in the negative emotions the couple may have for each other, it is no wonder the divorce process often gets messy between couples.

But with collaborative divorce, the foundation the process is built on is one of cooperation and respect. All parties have the same goal of reaching a solution, not trying to “beat” the other side.

Divorce litigation can also take much longer to resolve, with multiple court hearings, and lots of billable hours for the attorneys. Collaborative divorce is often much less expensive than a litigated divorce.

What if the couple cannot come to a resolution in the collaborative process?

At the beginning of the process, one of the things the couple agrees on is that if they cannot come to a resolution, then they will turn to litigation. The couple will each have to retain new attorneys as well.

Is collaborative divorce always the best choice?

Although this process is the better choice for many couples, there are situations where it would be better to go with the traditional divorce process. If there has been a history of domestic violence and intimidation, if one spouse is suspected of hiding assets and/or information, or if one spouse is just too unreasonable, your attorney will likely recommend a litigated divorce.

How do I find out if collaborative divorce is appropriate for my situation?

To learn more about the collaborative divorce process, reach out to Kempen & Company to schedule a confidential consultation with a dedicated Alameda County collaborative divorce lawyer.

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Types Of Collaborative Divorce Cases We Handle

As an Alameda County, CA collaborative divorce lawyer, we work with clients seeking a respectful and solutions-focused way to end their marriage. At Attorney Bernie, our goal is to help both parties resolve their differences in a supportive environment without the tension of a courtroom battle. We serve clients throughout Alameda County, Castro Valley, San Francisco, and Modesto, and we offer a full range of family law services to meet all of your needs. Below are several types of collaborative divorce cases we regularly handle.

High-Asset Collaborative Divorce

When both parties have significant financial holdings, property, or investments, we work to create fair agreements without unnecessary disputes. As collaborative family law attorneys, we coordinate with financial professionals to help promote clarity on asset division for both spouses.

Parenting Plan And Custody Agreements

Parents often choose collaborative divorce to create parenting plans tailored to their family’s needs. Our approach as divorce mediation lawyers focuses on preserving positive co-parenting relationships and prioritizing the well-being of the children. Our goal is to make sure your family’s needs are of the highest priority in these cases.

Spousal Support Negotiations

We assist in determining fair spousal support arrangements that reflect the unique financial circumstances of each spouse. As Alameda County collaborative divorce attorneys, we help both parties discuss needs openly and work toward sustainable solutions.

Business Owner Divorce Cases

When one or both spouses own a business, a collaborative process can help address valuation, ownership, and operational concerns without harming the company. Our experience as collaborative separation lawyers allows us to guide discussions that keep both the marriage dissolution and the business in mind.

Property And Debt Division

From dividing real estate to addressing shared debts, we assist in creating agreements that are fair and realistic. As family law collaboration attorneys, we focus heavily on transparency and open communication throughout the legal process, so both parties feel confident in the terms.

Modification Of Agreements

Even after a divorce is finalized, circumstances may change. We work with former spouses in a collaborative setting to modify parenting plans, support agreements, or other arrangements while maintaining a cooperative spirit.

Same-Sex Collaborative Divorce

We handle collaborative divorce cases for same-sex couples with sensitivity and respect for the unique aspects of their relationships. Whether addressing parenting, property, or financial agreements, we help keep the process focused on resolution and fairness.

At Attorney Bernie, we believe collaborative divorce offers a dignified, efficient, and personalized way to move forward. Our experienced team listens to your goals, facilitates respectful communication, and works with other professionals to create durable agreements. If you are considering this process, our Alameda County collaborative divorce lawyers can guide you through every stage with care and professionalism. Contact us today to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced attorneys who can help you decide if collaborative divorce is the right choice for your situation and guide you toward a resolution that supports your future. With the right legal support, you can move forward confidently and respectfully.

Client Review

"Bernie and his team have been incredible! Always responsive, professional, and, most importantly, ethical. Bernie's recommendations are exactly what I would expect from a professional in this field. He does not want you wasting your money on something a judge won't ultimately approve in court. In my experience, his team has tried to save me money where they could. I highly recommend him and his team. They will put in the time and effort to ensure you are well represented!"
Devon Nieve
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San Francisco

1 Sansome Street
Suite 3500
San Francisco, CA 94104

(415) 688-2400

Modesto

1301 G Street
Suite A
Modesto, CA 95354

(415) 688-2400